There is no spoon.

“My goodness these kids are so much worse than we were.”

“School wasn’t like this when I was there.”

“It’s these damn phones.  They’ve ruined the way people used to live.”

You’ve thought it, said it, maybe even written it and posted it on facebook.  Your parents thought and said it.  You know they did because they used to say it to you.  Their parents said it to them.

Consider instead that it may be you that’s changed.  When you do, what do you see?